Being assertive can come very easily to many of us whilst some of us might have an extreme difficulty in this area, due to many of the following blocks as stated by Hauck (1981b):
1.Fear of injury-Physical violence may be threatened or unleashed in order to keep you in line. This might be the case in an abusive relationship.
2. Fear of failure
3. Fear of hurting other people’s feelings-For example, if I tell him that ‘his gift wrapping is not very good, I might hurt his feelings’
4. Fear of rejection– For example: I couldn’t cope if they criticised me or abandoned me
5.Fear of financial insecurity- For example, you stay in a job you hate because you are worried about financial instability if you leave.
According to Trower et al (2011)there are these 2 blocks:
1.Guilt – You believe it is wrong to assert your…
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