I have heard all of these said by both my mother and father. My mother especially said that I was acting like a completely different person when I started setting boundaries. That I am not the daughter she had always known. That I am not the caring and thoughtful daughter that she could so easily abuse all my life.
Narcissistic parents will even accuse your significant other or your therapist to be the one that is turning you against them and that they aren’t healthy.
What are your expreriences?